The Rudeness Revolution: Why People Think Silence Is Acceptable Now
Why has basic courtesy vanished? This piece unpacks the rise of non-response culture, why silence isn’t neutral, and what it reveals about our evolving professional norms.
Dec 11, 2025


“She Doesn’t Need to Work.” Oh Really?
Why do people question ambitious women? Nancy unpacks the myth that women “don’t need to work,” challenging age, purpose, and career expectations in hospitality.
Nov 30, 2025


From Self-Worth to Net-Worth: Turning What You Deserve Into What You Earn
Women everywhere are underpaid—not because we lack worth, but because gratitude, fear, and invisible labor keep us from asking for it. Here’s how to change that.
Nov 12, 2025


Creating Change in a World That Feels Unchangeable
In a world that rewards noise over nuance, real change starts small...with kindness, empathy, and the courage to care when it’s easiest to turn away.
Nov 6, 2025


Why The Best Speakers Don't Sound Perfect
Flawless isn’t always powerful. The best presentations connect, not perform—when you stop polishing and start being present, real impact begins.
Oct 23, 2025


The Most Underused App on Your Phone: The Call Button!
Do you hide behind your inbox? Nancy Mendelson unpacks why real conversations build clarity, trust, and stronger relationships.
Sep 30, 2025


When Money Talks, Who Gets Silenced? Jimmy Kimmel...That's Who!
The latest victim of cancel culture....Jimmy Kimmel.
Sep 18, 2025


Redefining What Counts As “Time Well Spent”
Redefining “time well spent”: it’s not just productivity, but processing life—grief, joy, love. Quiet reflection is essential, not wasted.
Sep 4, 2025


Why Being Seen Matters More Than Being Perfect
We spend our lives chasing perfection, but what we truly crave is to be seen. Nancy Mendelson on why being noticed isn’t the same as being valued.
Aug 21, 2025


He Said Whattt? Snappy Comments For Sexist Bullsh*t (Revisited)
Like all of our hertelier content, we never know which topics will resonate in real time…or over time, which is why we frequently check...
Aug 6, 2025


WHEN MONEY TALKS, WHO GETS SILENCED?
Money talks—but should it? This piece questions why we equate wealth with wisdom, and explores why we must amplify overlooked voices, especially women’s.
Jul 24, 2025


Princess Treatment or Red Flag? Unpacking a Viral Trend
Is “princess treatment” romantic or regressive? Nancy Mendelson unpacks the viral debate on gender roles, modern love, and what women really want in relationships today.
Jul 9, 2025


When the Unthinkable Becomes Routine
In a departure from our usual content, columnist Nancy Mendelson reflects on the scary state of the union.
Jun 11, 2025


Family, Food, and the Hardcore Heart of Laura Lee Flanagan
Laura Lee Flanagan's "Hardcore Vegetarian" cookbook blends family recipes, bold storytelling, and fearless flavor—shared from the heart.
May 8, 2025


The Best Lesson in Self-Expression Is From Timothée Chalamet
Timothée Chalamet’s SAG speech sparked debate—but would it be “controversial” if a woman said it? A look at success, humility & gender.
Mar 1, 2025


Fired? Laid Off? Remember, Your Job Doesn't Define You!
Columnist and career coach Nancy Mendelson unpacks how to cope with being fired or laid off.
Feb 20, 2025


How To Avoid Being Victimized By Fearmongering
Don’t let fearmongers control you! Unmask their tactics, fight back with facts, and take charge of your own decisions. Click to learn how!
Feb 5, 2025


Has Boomerasking Supplanted Predatory Curiosity as the Latest Manifestation of Self-Centeredness???
Columnist Nancy explains 'Boomerasking,' the latest self-centered conversation habit, its effects on connection + tips to avoid doing it!
Jan 23, 2025


How I Found Grief Support in Virgin River
Grief comes in waves. Nancy Mendelson reflects on her personal journey since the passing of her husband and finding comfort in Virgin River.
Jan 9, 2025


Election 2024 Stress? How to Stay Positive, Take Action, and Make a Difference
Columnist Nancy Mendelson offers advice on coping with Election 2024, regaining control + taking action with strategies to support yourself.
Nov 8, 2024


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